The good news is, in your case, the love is real and transcends that aspect of your life, changing only your dynamic in the bedroom. Others have to work through a shift in how they spend their free time, if they aren’t constantly out at the bars. Some couples have a rude awakening that they don’t have as much in common without the partying component. That said, it can definitely change the dynamic in a relationship. Getting sober when you know your life is out of control is a courageous and brave accomplishment. I want to first congratulate your husband.